Toke Makinwa Talks on the 5 Types of Men In the Lagos Dating Scene

On this hilarious episode of Toke Moments, media personality and socialite, Toke Makinwa shares on the 5 types of guys on the dating scene and how the type of guys you attract is dependent on what you're looking for. Do you wanna know the different types of men? Are you looking for the rich money guy and attracting the 419 type? Are you looking for a famous name and getting a daddy's boy? Are there advantages and disadvantages to these types of men? Check on it below...

'Friends with Benefits' Never Really Work - Toke Makinwa

What are your thoughts on having the term 'Friends with Benefits'? TV and radio personality Toke Makinwa seems to believe that they can never work out as one or the other person starts catching feelings.

In her latest vlog, Toke answers a reader who sent in an agony aunt mail about now being caught in a love triangle after falling in love with her sex buddy. According to the mail, the guy has found a girlfriend and though he still sleeps with the sender, only sees her as a friend. How tormenting, right? Watch Toke below...

If Your Friend's Partner is Cheating - To Tell Or Not to Tell…

Will you tell a friend that her man was unfaithful, will you tell if it is the woman that is cheating? Have you ever done it in the past, and how did it go? How easy is it being the bearer of bad news?

These questions and more is treated on this week’s episode of Toke Moments, as media personality Toke Makinwa talks about whether it is better or not to tell your friend about a cheating partner.

Why Do Men Tell So Many Lies To Decieve Women?

Toke Makinwa's vlog of the week is discussing the "Lies Men Tell". Toke thinks men lie too much and their lies are primarily dedicated to deceiving women. And the lies also are so non-creative that it should be easy for women to figure out. She advices women to go more with their instinct, and also make Google and social media their friend.

Toke says; Men lie/Women lie but men do not get creative with their lies, have you ever had to believe some really silly lie it made you laugh so bad?? Watch the video below..

When Your Boyfriend Wants To Have Sex Without Protection

So we're still talking about using protection during sex. Two days ago, it was 17-year-old Swedish singer who had a message for the men, read here. Now, Toke is discussing the same topic. She talks about a lady who emailed her complaining that her man wants to have sex without a condom. Check out Toke's advice to her below...

The funniest part - HIV/AIDS is not written on the face - in Toke's razz accent, LOL...

Do You Discuss Your Partner's Sexual Performance With Friends?

Media personality Ariyike Akinbobola runs a weekly video blog where she discusses Nigerian relationships, and this week, she talks about discussing one's partner's sexual performance with friends.

In the episode, she shares a story from her University days fom Unilag hostel, Moremi. The video description says that "Real names have been changed and content was altered a bit so it doesn't sound exactly the same as real story".

She adds that the video is strictly is for adults. So if you're old enough, watch below and let's discuss if you think it's okay to talk about how good your partner is in bed with your friends? My own question is this, what if he is bad?

How To Hook a Man This Xmas Pt2… Starter Pack - Toke Makinwa Is A Joker

This week on Toke Moments vlog, Toke Makinwa gives tips to the single ladies abroad who are coming to Nigeria for Xmas on how they can hook a Lagos big boy husband during their visit. This is a sequel to "How to hook a man this xmas pt1" which she did last year. For those in Nigeria, Toke also has some words of encouragement.

Watch the video below and learn. But don't take her too seriously, this is in a lighter mood, lol...

Toke Makinwa Talks About Marriage And Divorce In The 21st Century!

Toke Makinwa may just have been married for less than year but she has been with her husband Maje Ayida for 12 years so she must know a lot about relationships ups and downs. This week on her vlog, she's talking  about marriage and what no one tells you about divorce.

On How To Spot A Stingy Guy - Must A Guy Spend On His Girlfriend?

Toke Makinwa spoke on the issue of stingy men in her weekly Vlog where she gave women pointers for identifying a stingy guy. I agree that being stingy is not a desirable trait in both men and women, and a giving spirit encourages one to reciprocate, but when Toke repeats several times, "a stingy man is bad for business", I wonder, what business are we talking about, are you a prostitute?

Toke goes on  to say;

He might be rich but “Is that money in circulation?... A stingy man is not the way forward, a stingy man is bad for business....some guys are so stingy that if you want to collect money from them, it's like squeezing a rock to bring out water..... a proper gentleman doesn't let a lady ask him for stuffs cos he knows she needs 'em...when a lady is scratching her hair, it's a sign for him to know that she needs to change her hair...Ladies if a man is not giving you money, close your LEGS!"

Again, I'm baffled. Close your legs? Must money from your romantic partner equate to sex? Are stuffs like fake hair, cars, bling, or restaurant outings, the only things women want from men? Should a guy even give his working girlfriend raw cash or gifts? Makes it look like an aristo arrangement.

For me, some things are more important than money in terms of being in a genuine relationship. These are support and understanding, respect and tolerance, and the spirit of compromise. Anyways, watch Toke's video below....

Do you Think Single Girls Prefer to Date Married Men Than Single Men?

Toke Makinwa, who was recently appointed as a co-host on the Moments With Mo TV Show, seems to believe that single girls do deliberately go out with married men, and prefer them to single men.

Her latest blog on the topic seems very timely since news of Joseph Yobo's alleged cheating with a single lady [read here] sparked a social media quarrel between Adaeze Yobo and one of her Instagram followers yesterday.

House Wife or Home Manager - The Work and Status of Stay at Home Mothers

The term here in the United States is Stay at Home Mother but the title more common in Nigeria is housewife. This denotes any married woman that chooses or happens to not have a career outside the home or not at all.

5 Signs to Watch Out For That May Identify an Abusive or Violent Partner

Toke Makinwa has decided to make domestic violence the topic of her weekly vlog in which she lists 5 signs that the man you're dating could be abusive, the famous red flags that one has to watch out for. The video is indeed very timely, as earlier this week, Arowolo Akolade was sentenced to death for murdering his wife in a domestic violence incident in which he stabbed her over 70 times. A young lady also shared pictures on Instagram of herself after she was pushed from a moving car and then dragged along by her boyfriend of eight months.

Do You Agree That Jealousy is a Sign of Love?

In her latest Toke's moments vlog - When a Woman is Fed Up - Toke Makinwa listed some signs that showed a woman in a relationship had reached her breaking point, and wants out of the relationship. She listed, when your woman no longer argues with you, if she's no longer jealous, and if she doesn't want your attention any more. While I agree with the first and last one, I'm of the opinion jealousy shouldn't be found where there's true love. See the video and excerpts below, and let's discuss.

Platonic Friendships Between The Opposite Sex Are Often More Than Just Friends

In this edition of Toke Moments, Toke Makinwa discusses the topic of platonic friendships between men and women, and lists some signs that indicate that your boyfriend or girlfriend and his or her bestie of the opposite sex "are more than just friends". Watch and share your thoughts.

Men With Wandering Eyes and Hands - Have You Encountered These Disrespectful Men?

This week on Toke moments, it's all about R.E.S.P.E.C.T! Watch Toke Makinwa talk about those things that some guys do that she finds disrespectful.....From guys with wandering hands and eyes, fast lying tongues, and chronic card collectors, you don't want to take these guys home to your mother. If you're a guy, are you guilty? If you're a lady, has it ever happened to you?

Throwback - Stella Damasus Goes Down Memory Lane

Who remembers my trip down TV memory lane HERE? On the third episode of the Stella Damasus Diaries, she also takes that journey, speaking about memories of her childhood growing up in Nigeria. If you were born in the seventies and eighties you'll definitely get the gist.

The Marriage Pressure: Why Are You Not Married?

The pressure on young women to get married at a certain age is all too real, some families dish it worse than others, but most do it in one way or the other. In this video, Chinenye Ifepe of Rita Speaks and a friend share their experiences on the struggles of being a single young female in an African setting. Watch the video below and share your own views.

Sisi Yemmie Vlogs - Stop Comparing, The Grass is Only Green Where It's Watered

"Look at you, look at you, is it not your mates that propose with range rover, and you're giving me ordinary picanto for my birthday, booo..." That is Sisi Yemmie for you o, I was laughing for most of this video but there are so many cool points. Life is so much hapier when you water your own garden and stop peeping over the fence every chance you get.

Toke Makinwa Changes Hairstyle, Talks About How to Spot a Lagos Big Girl

When I first got an email of this vlog, I thought, Toke Makinwa should know what she's talking about on this one, isn't she a Lagos big girl? After watching, I was like, what? OK o. Well, last week, Toke shared "how to spot a male gold-digger" for the ladies. This week, she's vlogging for the guys, and she also wants ladies to watch and stop letting high class babes give them a complex.

Do You Run Other Women Down Because of Men?

Toke Makinwa's vlog this week is about women who talk bad about other women in front of their love interests, either because they're interested in the same man, or out of a presumed "honesty" to save the man from himself. Toke feels so bad about it that she's really ranting, and I do see where she's coming from. However, in as much as we want to be all kumbaya, one may ask, is it not sometimes necessary to call out a woman who's behaving badly? Check out the video and let's discuss.